Have you ever noticed small changes in a loved one’s behavior or memory and wondered if it’s just normal aging or something more? You’re not alone. Many of us ask ourselves this question as our parents or spouses age. Trying to figure out if it’s normal aging and maybe dementia in a loved one can be overwhelming.
Recognizing the Signs of Dementia in Loved Ones
Is It Just Forgetfulness?
It starts with little things- a missed payment, forgetting an important date, or misplacing keys more than usual. While these can be part normal aging when they occur occasionally, if these types of events occur more frequently and interfere with daily life, they may be a sign of something more serious.
When to Take Action
If you’re seeing changes that concern you—it’s important to take a proactive approach. Here’s how to start addressing these worries:
Steps to Address Dementia in Loved Ones
- Document What You’re Seeing: Before approaching a doctor, jot down specific changes you’ve noticed in your loved one’s behavior, memory, or mood. Write down specific incidents, including dates, times, and a brief description of the incident. This can help clarify your concerns and give valuable information to doctors.
- Schedule a Doctor’s Visit: Check if your loved one has an upcoming appointment with their primary care provider (PCP). If not, or if the wait is too long, schedule one. Early assessment can make a big difference.
- Attend Appointments Together: If possible, go with your loved one to their appointments. You can give additional information and support so nothing important is missed.
Preparing for the Appointment
When preparing for the appointment, keep it simple. Outline the biggest concerns. This might include:
- Disorientation: Getting lost in familiar places or losing track of the month, year, season, or time of day by more than an hour or two.
- Memory Issues: More frequent and severe forgetfulness.
- Word-Finding Problems: Difficulty finding the right words during conversations.
- Behavioral Changes: Shifts in behavior or mood that are unusual for them.
- Motor / Balance Problems: New onset or worsening tremors, falls, or frequently dropping items.
The Importance of Early Diagnosis
Identifying dementia early can significantly improve the quality of life and the effectiveness of interventions. It allows for better planning and management of symptoms. It helps preserve independence for as long as possible.
Understanding the Diagnostic Process
Understanding what to expect can ease your mind and help you prepare. Here are the typical steps:
- Clinical Evaluation: This includes a detailed interview with the PCP or neurologist, where you’ll discuss the symptoms and changes.
- Cognitive Screening: Brief tests may be conducted during the initial visits to assess cognitive function and help determine next steps.
- Laboratory Tests: Blood tests can help rule out other causes of cognitive impairment like vitamin deficiencies or thyroid problems.
- Imaging Studies: In some cases, an MRI or CT scan may be ordered to look for structural changes in the brain.
- Referral to Neuropsychologist: Depending on the results of the workup, a full neuropsychological evaluation might be requested to obtain in-depth assessment of cognitive (thinking), behavioral, and emotional changes to help with diagnosis and treatment planning.
How to Support Your Loved One
Supporting a loved one who may have dementia is about more than just attending doctor’s appointments. It’s about making sure they feel safe, respected, and loved. Here’s how you can help:
- Maintain a Routine: Keeping a regular schedule can reduce confusion.
- Create a Safe Environment: Modify the living space to prevent falls and accidents.
- Social Interaction: Encourage activities where they are engaging and interacting with others to help maintain cognitive functions and emotional health.
Dementia in Loved Ones: Staying Hopeful and Informed
The possibility of dementia in a loved one can be stressful and emotional. Remember, you’re not alone. There are a lot of resources available to help, from local support groups to national organizations like the Alzheimer’s Association. Stay informed, be proactive, and keep hope alive. Your support can make a big difference in your loved one’s life.
If you have concerns about dementia or are noticing signs that worry you, reach out to Idaho Neuropsychology. Our team is here to guide you through the evaluation process and provide the support your family needs during this time.